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5 Lessons of Hiking With Kids Learned While Huckleberry Hunting

September 11, 2017 by Steve Lemig

Hunting for huckleberries is a great kid activity

Nature’s a good teacher. One of the best. My wife and I have been hiking for probably 30 years and Nature still has a few lessons up her sleeves for us. Nature was kind enough to remind me of 5 great rules of adventuring and hiking with kids the last two weekends.

The first weekend was pretty much a disaster. The second weekend was absolutely amazing. Here’s why.

The first weekend, my wife and 7-year-old daughter hiked a steep trail up in the Dillon, Colorado area, with a destination of a small alpine lake. It was a new trail for my family and we were very excited to explore the lake. The trailhead sign said it was just a couple miles to the lake. Well, it lied. Which leads me to the first lesson of hiking with a kid:

LESSON #1: DON’T WING HIKING WITH KIDS. MAP IT FIRST.

A hiker confirmed the trailhead sign was a liar when we got about two miles in and there was no lake in sight. She said the lake was more like five miles one-way, or ten miles round trip. I didn’t think to map the trail beforehand for two reasons: 1) I’d heard the hike was “pretty easy and not too long” from someone I trusted. Famous last words, right? 2) My daughter’s getting to be a pretty strong hiker and I figured we’d just go as far as we could and turn around if the hike proved too challenging.

Unfortunately, the disappointment of not getting to see the lake cued up some major waterworks. We had our hearts set on seeing the lake and we had no back-up plan, which is the second lesson:

LESSON #2: ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN B DESTINATION

I’ve actually written about this rule of hiking with kids…just this summer! And I still forgot it. While it’s always good to explain where you’re hiking to your kids so expectations are clear, you should also have a back-up destination or plan in mind in case your adventure goes awry. What I should have told my daughter was “we’re going to hike to this lake today, but we’re not sure how long it will take to get there. So, we’ll hike for 1 1/2 hours and if we haven’t made it to the lake, we’ll turn around and come back to the car for snacks.”

We made it back to the car, hot and tired with a heap of tears shed, and drove home feeling pretty bummed about our unsuccessful family adventure. It never feels good to set out on a family adventure with the intention to have fun and end up with your kid saying she never wants to hike again. But, if there’s one thing that fatherhood has taught me it’s to never take things too personally, know that there are good days and bad days, and this next lesson:

LESSON #3: GET BACK OUT ON THE TRAIL AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

Undeterred by the challenges of our last hike, we got right back out on the trail the next weekend. We chose a different trail, one that was less steep and one that had more wild flowers to keep my daughter happy. She’s a flower girl–loves to identify flowers on the trail. We also brought with us a secret weapon, the book Rocky Mountain Flora, to help keep her occupied along the trail. And that’s part of the next lesson:

LESSON #4: ADD SOME ENTERTAINMENT TO YOUR ADVENTURE

As idyllic as it may be to think your kid will naturally develop an undying love of the outdoors that will keep them focused on the adventure at hand…it’s probably not going to happen. Kids need another layer of entertainment on top of your outdoor adventure. We accomplished this two ways. One was bringing the book Rocky Mountain Flora written by the esteemed Colorado Mountain Club. It’s a compendium of just about every plant and flower found in the Rocky Mountain region–a legitimate scientific identification book, but so easy to use that my daughter can pretty accurately identify plants with it on her own. The great thing is, she has fun using the book.

The other layer of entertainment we added to our hike was to forage for wild huckleberries. Foraging for food is a great way to engage kids in your outdoor adventure. The idea that you can find delicious, edible food in the wild captures just about every kid’s imagination. You, of course, need to be careful and know exactly what you’re searching for, but when you do it’s a lot of fun for kids and parents alike.

We found a couple small huckleberry patches on the lower part of the trail but they had very little fruit. After hiking and searching a little more, we came upon a sub-alpine marsh that we found a huge swath of ripe huckleberries. Before we knew it, 45 minutes had flown by while carefully collecting the small purple fruits in a zip lock bag. My daughter was completely absorbed in the activity despite only walking away with half a sandwich-sized bag of berries after nearly an hour’s worth of work.

Cooking wild huckleberries to make homemade syrup

We got back to the car nearly four hours after leaving it that morning without a hint of tears, crying or whining. My daughter loved every minute and as a result I loved every minute.

The next morning we wrapped up the weekend’s adventure by making syrup from our harvested huckleberries and pancakes from scratch. A light shined in my daughter’s eyes showing her delight in making something delicious from berries SHE had picked just the day before. And that leads me to the final lesson from the hunt for huckleberries:

Huckleberry pancakes

LESSON #5: CELEBRATE YOUR KID’S VICTORIES & LET THEM OWN THEM

Pouring sweet huckleberry syrup that my daughter helped make on top of fresh pancakes that she helped mix and cook was a big moment to share as a family. I reminded her that the whole spread on the table was made possible by her work. I could see she was proud of herself. Even better, after devouring three big pancakes, my daughter patted her belly, smiled and said she wanted to go hiking again to get some more huckleberries. Maybe after just a couple more pancakes, kid.

Looking for more ideas to keep your kids happy on the trail? Check out these Hiking Dadventure Kits that’ll make any family adventure easy.

Filed Under: Adventures, Outdoor Tips

About Steve Lemig

Steve Lemig is the founder of Wilderdad. He's been a lot of things over the years. Skateboarder. Mountain biker. Climber. Snowboarder. Bike mechanic. Forest firefighter. Woodworker. Creative director. These days he's a runner, writer, husband, and father. He writes stories to empower dads and encourage them to share outdoor adventures with their kids as a tool to strengthen families and build respect for the environment. He has also been the Director of Brand Marketing and Communications at Road Runner Sports for the last 16 years.

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